WHEN DAYANNA TOLD A FIB!

i was very angry when Dayanna cheat this evening, not on me but on her grandma. How many time we tried to question whether what is said is true or scam. it make us confused!!
she didn't confess until her grandma persuaded and finally admitted. at that time, i was burst out! like a meteor into the sphere of a planet! i'm not concerned about my MIL anymore. i just wanna clog the chillies into Dayanna's mouth. My mouth is not incessantly nag.

i started questioning myself...
what i'm less educated her? or from whom she learned to lie? why she was always cheating? arghh..
It make me feel really tired and impatient.

Apparently, there are several reasons why they're lying:
1) Fear
2) To protect somebody else
3) because she is imaginative and the truth is boring.
4) To avoid an unpleasant task.
5) by mistake.
6) For love, or approval

The third and the fourth features are due to her. There is an article that shows that lie is an illusion that accompany the child. They often blend fantasy and reality.

Dayanna has her own "imaginary friend". When i scold her, she would blame her "imaginary friend" about the mistake. hmm.. Psychiatrist from Maryland said that.. "Very young kids don't know the difference between truth and fiction" ... Prof of Psycho said.. " Preschoolers with higher IQ scores are more likely to lie, furthermore.. lying may also be linked with good social skills in adolescents. There are some articles that i've trace to find out more on how to solve this problem! here

Hope to see the positive changes to Dayanna soon..

wang kelian vs padang besar # part 2

This is the continuation of the post yesterday.

At PB, I'm taking steps to visit all the shops in front of my eyes. I started by buying brooches ordered and certainly for me as well. Then, buy some other items that had been ordered by my colleagues. Wow!! all sorts that i had bought. But where is my belongings?
Hussaini is starting to fuss while i just want to buy my clothes. My hubby was tired of his 'riot' but i still linger in many shops to have all that i want. Finally, i just managed to have a blouse ONLY!

I was not aware that the clock is shown at 7 pm. We left to go to Rumah Tok. Tok cooked for us. plan to dine at KOK apa citer? well... we decided to cancel to stop at KOK although i've told them about our arrival. *Sorry*

On the way home, i looked the goods i've bought. Not much.. but the money i've spent almost RM 300 though! *next time must bring more money*

thats the story of a day in the north!

wang kelian vs padang besar

aloha!! Saturday's ago, i went to Perlis without planning ahead. I told my husband that i want to balik kampong. even though he is very busy, he also spend time with us.
In the morning when we left there, then we're planning travel to destinations that are waiting.

* lunch
* taman ular
* wang kelian
* Padang besar
* Rumah tok
* Rumah Mak
* Dinner @ Kopi O Kampong!!

As promised, we went to the proposed location. first, at Taman Ular. We have seen a snake defecate. have u seen it? Amazing!! hehehe.. yellow dung!!





then, we went through a hilly and winding road to get to the second location: Wang kelian. this place is well known and has been published in a televisyen programme *3 hari 2 malam, kalau tak silap la* This place, apparently did not like what i think and seen on tele. all the shops selling the same products. although many stores, about 1Km long, it cannot attract any interest in me to spend RM there.






sempat lagi main kat wang kelian...

Approximately 1 hour we walk there, we went to Padang besar. To those who do not hold the dizziness and nausea, no need to go to wang Kelian. I was almost weak, so dizzy. But when we arrived in PB, i continue to be healthy and fit.*shopping therapy*

panjang dah rasanya aku menaip ni.. sambung di lain entry la pulak..